How am I supposed to find someone to date as a fat girl? I’m in college, and everyone keeps going on about how this is supposed to be the best years of my life, but so far I’ve made zero friends and definitely zero boyfriends. I WANT to find somebody, I just don’t know how, or if they’d even want to because of my weight. If I try tinder, I’m worried A) people who know me will recognize me and then they’d know how desperate I am and B) that I wouldn’t find anyone who I ACTUALLY had feelings for. I’ve constantly struggled with my weight, and also with over romanticized ideas of love. I keep thinking someone will just waltz into my life like it’s some kind of movie, but doing that just makes me even more disappointed in myself because I know it’s not going to happen. All of my friends have had several boyfriends before, and I haven’t even had my first kiss. I’m worried I’m behind, like I won’t be prepared if someone actually does come along. I’m also worried that I’ll be 40 one day and still a virgin, and just how fucking depressing is that.